Too Good a Rant Not to Share

[brynndragon]

It's not that nice guys finish last. It's that Nice Guys finish last and with good reason. Read further: No More Mr. Nice Guy.

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[plymouth.livejournal.com]

BTW, if the answer to "does this make you uncomfortable" (or a variant on that theme) isn't clear, treat it as if the answer was "yes".

I think that's a very good rule. In general people don't have nearly as much of a problem expressing that everything is all fine and good than they do expressing that there is a problem. If they're not comfortable saying that they're comfortable, well then chances are they're not comfortable. Sounds much more obvious when I put it that way, doesn't it? :)