In general I think that the original writer hit it on the head in her note that those who doth protest too much are usually the culprits.

Yeah, for those of us who don't read innuendo and body language as... eloquently as others, it's a bitch. Which is why I try to be upfront with people about those issues and explain why I'm blunt and dense. Thank goodness too or my boyfriend would have broken up with me 9 times over. Instead we're quite happy and succesful.