Oh, I know about being a cool post-modern working mom who has career, family, and social life, but the way that works in practice is no more appealing to me than the more traditional stay-at-home-mom life. I'd much rather be the post-modern dad who stays at home with the kids once or twice a week while Mom gets to have her post-modern social life, but honestly isn't much different than the traditional dad with career and existance beyond one's kids. I get a bit more into other differences in above comments.