Hmmmm.... I completely missed that particular perspective when I originally read it. It wasn't clear to me that they differentiated between normal "getting to know someone for possible friendship or romance" and "I'm going to say/do A, B, C, D, and E so they think I'm great and want to sleep with me". That distinction actually helps a lot.
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Date: 2006-03-27 05:32 pm (UTC)