But there is no dad role any more than there's a mom role. There's all kinds of dads and moms out there. So, I guess I'm asking, what is the advantage of calling yourself a dad over a mom?
I can see how calling yourself a dad helps challenge people's expectations of your relationship with your children and can force them to open their eyes a little to the fact that the maternal parent doesn't always need to be the primary parent. On the other hand, I can see how calling yourself a mom and refusing to do the stereotypical mom things can also accomplish this.
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re: dad role and not the mom role
Date: 2007-01-17 05:56 pm (UTC)I can see how calling yourself a dad helps challenge people's expectations of your relationship with your children and can force them to open their eyes a little to the fact that the maternal parent doesn't always need to be the primary parent. On the other hand, I can see how calling yourself a mom and refusing to do the stereotypical mom things can also accomplish this.