You're a genuinely good guy. Falling into the trap of falling for a friend (and the resulting weirdity) is nowhere near the same thing as setting yourself up in such a situation deliberately because you're Nice.
Still, it's good to read the essay as "behaviors to avoid".
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Date: 2006-03-27 06:45 pm (UTC)Still, it's good to read the essay as "behaviors to avoid".