It's so true. I tend to like aloof, slightly arrogant men physically the most. They drive me crazy. If they are too available, I tend to respond "shrug whatever" even though I *think* I want a Mr. Nice Guy. I may like them a lot otherwise, might be attracted, but it's always the ones that I'm not sure about entirely or that push me around a little or sometimes a lot that I like the most. If they have the contrast of being sweet to me between the assbeatings, etc. I like them even more. But if they were all sweet, don't think it would really work.
Note, I do NOT like this in a social setting -in fact it completely turns me off. It's only a sexual thing.
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Date: 2006-03-27 08:28 pm (UTC)It's so true. I tend to like aloof, slightly arrogant men physically the most. They drive me crazy. If they are too available, I tend to respond "shrug whatever" even though I *think* I want a Mr. Nice Guy. I may like them a lot otherwise, might be attracted, but it's always the ones that I'm not sure about entirely or that push me around a little or sometimes a lot that I like the most. If they have the contrast of being sweet to me between the assbeatings, etc. I like them even more. But if they were all sweet, don't think it would really work.
Note, I do NOT like this in a social setting -in fact it completely turns me off. It's only a sexual thing.